In my free time I like to go to concerts (rock, jazz, blues, pop, pretty much anything with a good rhythm), explore new restaurants, find a nice dive bar with a good pool table, or just hang out with friends. Sexually, I'm a little wild, but only if the chemistry is right. (Is kissing you after you go down wild? or spontaneous sex someplace other than the bedroom?) For me a perfect date is a bottle of wine and kissing 'til dawn. I love to travel and wish I had someone fun to explore with, to me, traveling means being willing to get lost along the way - I like to make vacation plans that are flexible. If you contact me please include a face pic, as much as I appreciate the male form, a close up of your penis doesn't impress me as much as your smile :D To answer those burning questions: My relationship status is "complicated" I live with someone but we have never been intimate, and while I love him as a friend I am no longer "in love" and haven't been for over a year. He's also chosen to be celibate for close to 6 years and I've been waiting for him to be "ready" for sex for about 5 years... and yes that means it's been about 5 years since I felt the touch of a man because at heart I really am monogamous (and apparently very very patient). Which brings us to the present: I am ready for a complete relationship, mental, physical, emotional and spiritual. Okay, maybe not spiritual, I have that covered because I am a good person and treat others with respect and expect the same from my friends & lovers. I am a little old fashioned and I value trust and loyalty (monogamy) in my relationships. Plus I don't want to share, even with a wife. So, guys, if you are wanting good clean fun with a D/D free woman who knows what she wants and isn't too shy to ask, with monogamy/sexual exclusivity being the only requirement, please feel free to drop me a line! Love is the glue, sex is the payoff... or is that too cynical? You'll have to let me know I guess! Feeling a bit cynical, the non-boyfriend is rattling the windows in the next room (he has his bedroom, I have mine, so I don't even get a good cuddle now and then) he sleeps while I've got insomnia every night, I think that the lack of a good orgasm has made me cranky. :-S

My Ideal Person What does Goldilocks always want? Someone who is Just Right! Will you carry on a conversation about current events, throw in some philosophical discussions about life and it's many meanings, make me laugh or make me think? Or at least can you appreciate the brilliance of Monty Python? Do you have good hygiene, minty fresh breath and at least a little man-scaping? You don't have to shave the family jewels but a nice trim goes a long way! Do you have your own place complete with a comfy bed with clean sheets, a bathroom that I can go barefoot in, and a fridge that has more than beer in it? Are you willing to be patient and understanding with a nice gal who may be on a rebound? And if this doesn't describe you but you have this one friend... let me know that too!