On this search I expect to make friends as well as find someone who I feel a sexual connection to and share that sexual spark when we meet. I am sensual, clean, fun-loving, passionate, and honest. I do not bring drama to the table nor do I want any drama to be brought to the table. I do have a rather hectic schedule and I hope to find a man secure enough in his own right that he stands on his own accomplishments and does not rely upon others to define who he is. I have a witty sense of humor and look for that in a man as well.I am looking for a man who is honest firstly with himself and also with others. A man who knows what he wants, has a good head on his shoulders, sense of humor, warmth, and has to have a brain that works. A man that knows he can be successful in life on his own but would like to have a partner to share it with and to stand beside him through wonderful times and not so wonderful times. A man that enjoys knowing he has someone there for him and only him as he is there for only her. I am not into head games nor affairs of the heart. I am looking for that one man that I melt inside when I hear his voice and when he calls, I light up. A man that I am proud of and enjoy him for who he is because he is true and not merely a put on act. I do enjoy playing Chess, as well. And, I love music! One never knows what life is going to throw at us, so we might as well make the most of the time that we have and live life, not just merely exist within it!