Well, I've done the sex with a stranger thing, the casual sex thing, and the friend with benefits thing, and despite the different labels, they've all been the same thing: opportunities for shallow sex. Well and fine, but I'm wanting something regular, more, and deeper. Something with longer than a two-week expiration, something with trust, something that allows sex to build in its creativity, something deeper. And yes, I'm talking strings. I'm not looking for marriage again; being legally obligated to provide sexually and financially again for someone doesn't turn me on. However, faithfullness doesn't require marriage and doesn't have to be forever. If we last a month, fine: had a good time, learned a lot, see ya. But I have to say if you know you won't last a month with strings, the sex can't be that good to begin with.

My Ideal Person Someone who smells good, and is playful, sincere, sensual and private. Open, honest and unattached. I'm more interested in a real friend than a fake one-nighter, and I'm not interested in being the something on the side.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Can't wait, still fully clothed just inside the front
door.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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