I have been in the lifestyle for a while now and honestly enjoy it, but I have also been single for some time and do not enjoy it. What you see is what you get with me... I am honest, very open minded, silly at times, but always fun. I am not a "slim fit woman" I am an average sized woman... not fat or skinny... just right as I have been told. I have no goal to become barbie. Everyone has a few pounds they would love to loose.. I am healthier so I am happy the way I am.I have been told I have the sex drive of a man because I am always horney and can go for hours. Is that a bad thing?! Sorry if you only get off once and I can many, many, many, ..... more times....I am looking for someone that can share this side of my life and possibly more. Sex is very important to me and always will be, but honestly want more than sex.. I would like to have a close friendship or more later.There is not much that will offend me except being treated like a POA and not being respected... with that said, If you are married and just wanting some action on the side or just want a quicky one night stand you have come to the wrong place. Most of the men and women that I have been with are still in my life, as a friend or lover.