My Ideal Person:
Yes, I know this is a sex site, but that doesn't mean I'm going to hop in the sack with every good looking, well hung guy out there (but being good looking & well-hung is nice!!)! There has to be some brain to go with the brawn ~ I find the mind very erotic... So, no illusions here ~ the ideal man doesn't exist, but intellect, passion for life and sexual proclivity are major turn-ons! If you're funny, you get cuter over time, so a sense of humor is everything. I can be a bit of a sarcastic wise-ass sometimes ~ can you take it? You can carry on a conversation because you have more than one interest or hobby, you like going out once in a while, staying in now and then, enjoy evenings spent together as well as evenings playing with friends. Manners and chivalry aren't dead so I expect both. But when it comes to sex you're a kinky bad boy who uses that great intellect to be creative and devious ~ this is a sex site after all!

Yes, we women get lots of emails and since we don't live on this site, we can't reply to all of them. Maybe others are different, but if you really want me to reply I do need more than a cock-shot and an invite to meet in the first email - I'm not meeting everyone who sends me an email!! I don't expect you to write a novel, but I do expect you say something intelligent, provocative, sexy, or at least tell me about you, or what you're looking for, or hope to find here. I've been given crap for this, been told I'm "demanding," actually that's putting it nicely!! but if you're really interested you're gonna have to get my attention! And I do insist on a few emails being exchanged and/or chatting on IM a few times before meeting ~ get to know a little about each other first.

If you don't have a profile pic OF YOUR FACE send one with your email ~ one that actually shows your face please ~ no partial shots, hats, far away landscape shots... I want to open my eyes during sex and have to like what I see! It's great if you want to send other body parts as well, but no visible face, no reply... You can see me so I want to see you.

YOU DIDN'T GET A RESPONSE BACK? If you don't get a reply please take that as a polite no thank you, you're probably just not my type. If you want a more specific reason, see above and read below before asking ~ I'm tired of getting emails inquiring about my lack of response when it's painfully obvious...

If all you typed in the email is "waz up," "im interested," " u r HOT," "let's get a drink tonight," or something similarly lame, you got deleted.

And if offers such as the following are your idea of a good first impression, that's the reason women won't respond back to you, and you're home alone masturbating with a 1980 issue of Penthouse that you found in the trash instead of having sex with an actual partner...
My answer to emails asking, "Hey wanna fuck?" is No. No, I don't want to see you cum for me on the cam, I don't want to send you pictures of my pussy (at least not until I've decided we're getting naked together!), I don't want to be your cyber girlfriend, I'm not going to hop in my car to come service you, I'm not giving you my phone number, and I'm not going to call you if you send me yours!!! And if we went out a year ago but I never contacted you again, there is a reason… I didn't lose your number on accident!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Maroon 5, Nickleback, Gwen Stefani, Pink, Aerosmith,
Van Halen, Etc. Etc.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.