Q: Can this site be used for dating too? I'm a happy, friendly, affectionate Irish redhead, well-educated, office professional, city girl with no . I laugh a lot, like going to local sporting events, city festivals, backyard bbq's and hot wings spots. Also a fan of live music, the performing arts, museums, micro breweries, sushi places and coffee houses. I'm an independent and confident woman who is fine on her own, but, I want a man to share life with.

My Ideal Person Single or Divorced, unattached, 37-50 yr old, White, Non-smoking, smart, witty, respectful, emotionally mature and open-minded, working professional who is financially comfortable and secure (like me), living within an hour of Cedar Rapids.

I'm looking to take my time dating a nice guy and have it evolve into a close relationship. Do things around town, dinner and a movie, go out walking and holding hands, cuddle, cook together, roast marshmallows and enjoy getting to know each other. A guy who isn't tied to a television and can carry on a conversation. Someone in the phase of life where kids are grown and you're free to spend time with someone. How about a couple of days in Chicago sight-seeing? Or watch some college football games together? I'm looking to date and be friends, start a relationship and let it proceed on it's own course. I'm NOT looking for a one-night stand, a "hook-up", or an FWB. So if that's what you're looking for, I'm not for you.

I'm not ashamed to say I really like men, love sex and would want anyone I'm in a relationship with to feel the same and be able to perform, but, I'm looking for a boyfriend to have a long-term, romantic relationship first. Sex gets better and better once two people really care about each other. The process of exploring each other and learning their likes and desires over time is magical! I am flirtatious, but at my core, I am still a lady. When a man excites my mind with his intelligence, my desire follows.

If I've interested you, send me a "Hello" message, I would love to hear from you I'm only a standard member, so I can't send you a message until you send me one first. I also cannot view profiles. We can chat a bit and meet for a cup of coffee or a microbrew and see how we go from there.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Anything really but , hip hop or modern country

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My Thunderstorm Fantasy is the fantasy I've had the
longest, since I was in college. It involves me and a special
(as yet unknown) man I'm involved with and we're
deep inside a park in the summertime, late at night, in a
lovely white, ornate, southern-style, covered gazebo,
during a violent, roaring thunderstorm. Howling wind,
sheets of rain, lightning crackling the sky and booming
thunder. There's something about the idea of the cooler
air and the spray from the rain hitting our skin and we can
moan and scream as loud and as primal as we want while our
sounds are being muffled by the raging storm. No one would
know we were there. We'd go round after round in a fury
until the storm passed; then we'd lie in each other's
arms feeling completely connected. <br><br>
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I'm hoping to find a special man who wants to share that
with me someday.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Intense Kissing & Making Out

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Johnny Depp - very smart and sexy. Angelina Jolie - - Those
eyes! Those lips! Wow.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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