My Ideal Person:
The Ideal Guy is friendly, warm and pleasant to be with. He's well endowed, very well endowed. And because I have a pussy as well as a mouth, I like someone that likes pleasing at least 2 orafices.

He's a gentleman in and out of bed with a very high sex drive (did I say that already..just want to make sure that's really clear).

He's disease-free and sexually responsible, even though he knows how to sling that cock correctly. He is a serious person, not a gamer (only in front of the tv does he game).

He has a sexy physique that goes along with his drive (he's the total package).

He is financially-secure as well. I feel that it all goes with the total package. I'm financially indepedent and am not necessarily looking for a rich man (but I wouldn't kick him out of bed if he were).

What I hope to meet is a male that is a real man. That is confident, funny and direct, with a strong libido, high-sex drive and time to spend with a woman for the reasons we especially love to spend time together. He's got all of the man qualities and is not just a producer but also a director. The room can feel his presence when he enters it.

He has a very strong sex drive. He is generous with his time and his affection towards the woman in his life. He looks forward to spending time with his woman because she keeps him satisfied.

He isn't married since I'm not a home-wrecking ho.

I'm not the jealous-type, but I do get bored easily so I need to be entertained (often).

I am not necessarily looking for any long-term relationships so no worries there if you are concerned about attachments and want to play the field, but my goal is an arrangement where we cut thru all of this and have a steady interaction, so I'm open to a long-term relationship that is based on the things outlined.

Since I love to worship a cock....the right cock....it will always have the attention of all of me. All I'm saying is I'd like to find the right cock to worship on a regular basis.

I understand the life of busy professionals, since I am also busy so I've discovered that having my serviceman on speed dial is best for my circumstances, however, I plan on deleting this ad once I meet HIM, and letting anyone I've met on here know that I have.

I'm more shy than outgoing (but I can get used to this) so comfort is extremely important to me when meeting someone and interacting with them. No hang-ups or stubborn situations.

If you can't go with the flow, you're not for me, sorry. Bad-boys and gun-slingers need not apply.

This comfort level also includes being mutually attracted in meeting, so if we exchange some snaps and I'm not your style, don't be afraid to say so since I won't be. I feel I'm an attractive woman, but I may not be everyone's type anyway....besides I'm special also. Finally, I prefer black men and men of mixed ethnicities that include african-american, since long and thick are my preference (at least 8") since as a BBW I need a big hard and firm cock to satisfy me. Hard to find this quality in other races (and I find that extremely frustrating since I'm attracted to all races); if you disagree, step up. Please NO COUPLES/NO BI-SEXUALS/NO LESBIANS

I don't want someone who isn't getting serviced by his woman since that means he doesn't know how to get what he wants at home (how can he give me what I want if he's not giving her what she probably wants?)

ALSO: A message to men who are reaching out, either to ask me or have asked to service you because you have a woman already that isn't treating you right or servicing you as you think I could.

I appreciate your emails and attention, but don't need it....PLEASE MOVE ON.

I don't pity any man who does not know how to demand from a woman what he deserves out of a sexual relationship with a woman, especially when she enjoys what you provide; either get what you deserve or just plan to pay the child-support and alimony and leave to get what you deserve. Thanks.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
too many to list

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Would love to fuck Terrence Howard. Something about those
eyes and that voice.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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