My Ideal Person:
As I said, we have been on Adult FriendFinder for a few years now and prior to "screening" guys we met some real winners! You would have to live in our small, southern, city to understand this but having a sexual lifestyle that is not the norm is not the most excepted thing in the world. I work in education and in the best of times it is a sensitive area. My father is a retired minister and my family has a very "rural" background. The reason I mention this is that I do not want ANYONE to know who I am, where I work, my home address, telephone number or any personal information about me UNTIL they have met my partner and he is "ok" with them. This is NOT negotiable and the terms will not change. Now let me give you an idea of what we are looking for and what the terms for meet are.

1.We are looking for STRAIGHT or Bi Curious guys. I am sorry but we are not into gay men at all. We are looking for guys between the ages of 18 and a MAX of 30. That is the age group we are both attracted to and we have no desire to experiment with anyone older or younger.

2. Your first meeting will be with just him and since you are straight and he is Bi it would simply be you getting sucked off, with nothing expected in return. From that we can see how open minded/comfortable you are. We would set up a date for a future 3 way IF everything went as planned.

3.3. He can see if you are someone we know. It is AMAZING to me how many people can’t mind their own business. We have had people send us fake pics in an attempted to find out if they know me, my parents, where I work and so on. They claim to be the person in the pic but when he actually meets them they aren’t. They are simply being nosey and want a way to satisfy themselves. Some times their motives are much darker, they want to cause trouble (mainly religious people) or blackmail me to have sex. This has happened TWICE before we began screening so PLEASE don’t tell me it won’t happen. You may actually be from where you claim to be and be who you claim to be but how do I know that for SURE? You might tell me you are a 20 year old college guy from North Carolina but actually be a 50 year old religious nut from Chattanooga.

4.We find out if you would be attractive to us at all. We have met guys with wonderful pics and nice profiles. But the problem arises when we meet them. They range from being closed minded and hostile to male/male action, to poor personal hygiene, to being grossly overweight, not who they say they are, not the person is the pic, unable to perform sexually and so on.

5. Please try and understand where we are coming from. All you are risking is getting a blowjob from a guy. If you are worried that we are fake then think of what you might lose. The only thing would be getting sucked off, which from what I understand most guys really like! Sex is fun and for the life of me I can't understand why people (some guys in particular) attach such a big deal to it! It is a new experience and we are BOTH very discreet. Like Vegas, if it happens here it STAYS here. This is a chance for you to explore your wild side with two nice people. If that risk is too great for you then best of luck on the site. If it is acceptable and you understand that we won’t compromise our process for meeting then drop us a line and we’ll go from there.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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