After 3 years on AFF, I’m changing my profile. I’ve learned a lot, possibly too much (lol) and everything I thought I had to have turned out to be things I didn’t need at all. AFF is a giant kaleidoscope……ever-changing, full of men of so many diverse sizes, shapes, wants, needs, circumstances...for some, it’s a giant buffet, meant to be sampled at leisure, and over and over. For others, it’s a place to hide, and project an illusion...this is like throwing something way high in the air...its a great hiding place, but only for a very short time. For me, it’s a place to read, marvel, smile, snicker a lot, and wait...even after all this time, I have faith.... If you’re married, or if a lady somewhere has a claim on you, please don’t waste your time or mine. If you’re looking for a quick roll in the hay, you're in the wrong barn. If you’re looking for a mommy, I’m out of diapers. If you’re looking for a sugar mama, I’m using saccharine these days. If your past has ruined your future, seek professional help. If you believe that a young girl can restore your youth, grab your Geritol and go for it. OK..........now to positive things....lol.....I'm a happy per....I love traveling, good books, most music, early morning fishing. I find the humor in almost everything, I'm not afraid of anything, I have no hidden agenda, and no soap opera baggage. I absolutely believe in Karma.......things ALWAYS even out with time.

My Ideal Person If you’re mature enough to laugh at yourself, and to be comfortable with your limitations, financially stable (I did NOT say rich – I said stable), if you want fun outside the bedroom as well as in, if you want a relationship that includes sex but is not built around it alone; if you are happy with a woman who is absolutely straight and monogamous and not interested in multiples of any kind, as well as independent, casual, and bohemian; if you have somewhere to go when its time to go home, but you can stay over when we want; if you like a woman who can listen to you as well as talk; if you’re educated but not condescending……………then maybe we should talk. A lot of requirements, you say? Absolutely! And I expect you to have requirements of your own, and to be just as discerning. One of the things I like best about AdultFriendFinder is that we're allowed the luxury of making good decisions, or informed mistakes. And yes, I know that AdultFriendFinder is a sex site.............well, I love sex - it's wonderful! It's a joyous affirmation of being alive - and AdultFriendFinder gives us a platform to look for it, and to accept it in any fashion or package that we wish. As for physical attributes???? I love a face with character, one that shows some living and some lines....eyes alive with humor and intelligence......I'm not into sculpted, tanning-booth pretty boys. I DO prefer my date be taller than I. I also like beards and moustaches, although that's a like, not a requirement. I'm not looking for the man who wants to offer stud service to the masses, and who bases his self-worth on his penis. I'm looking for the man who wants to offer (and receive) affection, attention, time, understanding, honesty and fidelity.

Smiles to all of you and thanks for reading my profile

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
in front of a fireplace, a cabin, or outside in a thunderstorm

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
one on one great sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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