i have been with women for 20 years. now i am exploring playing with men. some of my finer traits include my beautiful wet, pink, luscious lips just made for kissing & licking & sucking. i adore performing oral sex, i've never been able to give that up. my long red/auburn curly hair is the perfect length for wrapping your fist in. my 38dd breasts, with velvety mauve nipples. my smile is contagious and fills up the whole room. my skin feels soft like silk & smells like a tropical garden, just the way a woman should. my finger nails are long and bright. do you like reubenesque? that's me. full and ripe for the picking. i've got curves, and i've got shape and i'm all woman. if you are looking for a barbie doll just hit your back arrow and go on elsewhere 'cause baby, you couldn't handle me. equally important are my sense of humor, compassion, adventure and intellect. i am looking for friends & playmates. i am in charge all day at work so when it's time to play, i want someone else to be. i work with sexually abused and teens and i need to remember how to play sexually. i'm not talking about total domination here. just assertiveness & a take charge attitude. so, are you man enough to take on the challenge?

My Ideal Person i'm looking for a young, well built, tall, black or brown man. someone who can be a friend. someone to hang out with and have a good time dancing, going to dinner,a movie, talking or whatever...while knowing that at the end of the nite wild, raw animal sex may, or may not, be happening. it's all about chemistry and anticipation baby. travelling to the southern region is an absolute must in order for me to be completely sexually satisfied. you actually enjoying it is just as important. to taste that velvety, melt in my mouth sweet chocolatey skin, to caress your muscular body...i dream about a 3 some with 2 beautiful young studs giving me their complete & undivided attention...tattoos, ice, spanking, bald heads, wax, dreds, anal play, semi public places... these are just some of the things that make me hot. will you? oh- i have so many dreams. if you are interested, contact me. if it feels right, i will share them with you. **** to completely ruin the mood now let me give a cliff note version of what i am looking for here. 22-40 year old, 6'+, athletically built, professional black or brown men. please send an alternative email address if you would like a response. and yes, i am for real. so please don't write and accuse me of not being so. that's not very friendly *** i can't wait to hear from you!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
melissa etheridge, ani difranco, ll cool j, queen, i can go on & on

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, respect, trust worthiness

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
angelina jolie;) she kidnaps me and i become her sex slave. email me... i'll tell you all about it...

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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