TEMPORARY UPDATE: At this time I simply do not have time to meet anyone. I will update my profile once the situation is different. Please do not email me until I change my profile to reflect that I have time to meet. I have been in a relationship with someone from this site for the past 8 years. We were split for a short time but are now back together. We have always had an open relationship and have always played both together and alone. He would be aware I am meeting someone else just as I am always aware if he is meeting someone. Due to his work I cannot meet on Saturday or Sunday unless we are playing together with a third party or with another couple. I am interested in meeting those that I am attracted to who are within a 45 minute drive or are willing to drive to meet. I would like to find someone local I can meet on a reg basis without the drama of a relationship. This does not preclude there being a friendship. There must be enough chemistry that I would be able to enjoy your company out of the bedroom before I could enjoy your company in the bedroom. Preference is 30 to 45 age range but this is not set in stone. If a bit younger or older and you fit what Im looking for Im willing to entertain the idea of meeting. You must be well groomed and clean. If you have issues with alcohol or drugs Im not interested in meeting you. If we get to the point of chatting please do not ask me a bunch of useless sexual questions. If your within my age range and not a virgin we should be able to figure it out in per without talking it to death online. I am more interested in how passionate you are and how much foreplay you like and if you like to kiss than I am in what your pecker looks like. What goes on prior to and after the actual sex act makes a difference in how good an experience we will have. It seems lately all people want to do is get on IM and ask for photos so they can whank off. As soon as you mention meeting they disappear after wasting an hour or more of your time. I WILL NOT SEND MORE THAN 2 PHOTOS AND NEITHER WILL BE X-RATED. My photos are up to date and realistic. If yours arent then get off your ass and get some new ones made. And by the way...5 years is not RECENT. If your married and cheating that is your business but I'm tired of guys trying to make me part of their actions by claiming to be single but are in reality married or attached and have someone at home who thinks they are the one and only. Would you just lay the phone down and walk away if you were mid conversation with someone on your phone? Just because you are online does not make it any less rude. I'm tired of guys that will say anything to meet you once, including saying they are interested in meeting on a regular basis when in fact they have no intentions of seeing anyone from this site more than once. I'm tired of getting emails from people that have obviously not read my profile and are not even remotely in the range of what I am looking for. I'm tired of the emails from those that are only a step above Neanderthals and might as well be grunting and pointing, their communication skills are so poor. Most men here think the women here are unfit to "date" and are only interested in seeing how many women they can fuck. Well guess what, we are your neighbors, mothers, aunts, sisters, teachers, co-workers and friends and most of us are just as moral as anyone else. The fact we are looking for someone that is sexually compatible does not make us less than you. If you set a date and place to meet...show up. It isn't a game, its not funny. Others may have to go to a lot of trouble to meet you and when you stand them up it shows what kind of per you truly are. If you are going to take the time to send an email, be polite, this may be a sex oriented site but you can not assume that everyone will appreciate you being crude and obnoxious. Even if you have a face pic on profile many cant view so add one when emailing. If you have chosen to be a free member please don't be annoying when speaking to those that choose to pay by being impatient or asking for photos in a rude manner. There are a very few women on the site that are only interested in what your pecker looks like. The majority are much more interested in your face and perality. If we want to see a picture we are capable of asking for it and are so tired of seeing profile after profile with nothing but pecker pics which basically all look alike. If your going to IM on either the site or elsewhere try to determine if the per you are chatting with is open to such questions as 'what is your favorite position" before you leap into what amounts to a porno conversation. Most aren't and its a question that can only be answered for one per at a time anyway since all are different and act in different ways. I am tired of people in general being completely disrespectful of others and their time and not knowing the meaning of courtesy. Treat those here as if you were in a regular social setting, being online is no excuse for being rude. I am aware that there are some women that would fit the same description as the jerks Ive described here but since I am looking for males basically I don't have experience with the same problems with women and therefore don't speak to those issues. If your male and finding the same problems then let the women know how you feel. Ive noticed a lot of guys are putting AMPLE on profile for body. This is a description of your BODY, not your cock and if someone is doing a search and that isnt included in what they are looking for then you will be excluded from the search. If you are only here to chat, whank, cam, talk on the phone or have any other intentions other than MEETING IN PER [COLOR purple]I AM NOT INTERESTED[/COLOR] [B]NOTICE[/B][COLOR darkred][/COLOR] If you cant treat me with respect, courtesy and honesty Im not interested in even chatting with you much less having sex with you. I dont have the time nor the inclination to spend hours in IM chatting. In 15 minutes we should be able to determine if we are interested in meeting or not. First meeting will be at public place and if we decide to take it further you will need to get a room. After first meet we can talk about either of us hosting at our homes. I neither promise or expect anything on a first meet. You simply never know what the chemistry will be like when you meet in per. I like to leave the option open but its never a requirement. If we set a date and time to meet and you cancel without giving enough notice that I dont go to the trouble to rearrange me schedule and all I need to do in order to meet you or if you stand me up without notice I WILL put your screen name on my profile for all to see.If your schedule is such that you cant set up a date without having to constantly cancel and change it then DONT.

My Ideal Person I am looking for men in 30 to 45 age range who are SINGLE. My preference is for average weight to slender men. I prefer guys with hair that is medium to longer length. Again this is a preference and not set in stone but please consider it before contacting me. I prefer a more rugged looking man. One that is confident without being arrogant and intelligent without being overbearing. If your not willing to give me your cell number in exchange for mine please dont bother contacting me. Please do not send me your cell number before we have chatted online.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Bob Segar, Conway Twitty, Gretchen Wilson, Arrowsmith

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