Update: 8/08
What I've written below still rings true, in a perfect world. However, I am not finding that elusive ONE man, and I have no intention of letting my sexuality go to waste! So, I am playing around some and enjoying it immensely. (But NOT one night stands. The friendship component of "FWB" is essential to me. Sex is always better when there are on-going encounters, and when there is a friendship.) I am very selective, though, as stated in the rest of my profile. I want much more than just getting laid. If you write to me and I write back stating that I'm not interested, please don't take it personally. I know what I like and it's not necessarily definable. I'm definitely interested in quality above quantity!
There are all sorts of definitions of relationships; particularly on this site. The trouble is that everyone interprets all of those definitions in different ways. So rather than trying to put a label on the type of relationship that I desire, this is what I would love to find: ONE lover who can be my friend, share stories of our days, go for long walks, go to dinner, share a bottle of wine, or a few beers, go to a movie, see some concerts, go for a bike ride, take a hike with me, float the river, catch a play, drink coffee together on Sunday morning, (Saturday morning too!) snuggle on the couch and watch a movie with me, discover a new camping spot together, and, lest I forget to mention.....have a glorious time exploring one another's bodies! Kissing is where it all starts. I am exceptionally passionate and sexual, but it's never going to happen unless there is a strong mental, as well as physical connection between us. Chemistry! Sex is one of the most delicious celebrations in life and one of the best ways in which I express myself, but it takes the right combination of looks, brains, and personality to ignite that fire in me. I crave the intensity of real intimacy that comes with discovery, familiarity and affection.
I am selective and don't agree to meet someone new very often. Please send a photo of your face if you write to me and hope to meet. Looks do matter, of course. But just as important as your physical appearance is what you say, and how you say it. I am not desperate, nor am I lonely, so I reserve the right to be choosy. I trust my gut and that's what I listen to. In the meantime, I do enjoy perusing profiles from all over, and of all ages and sexes. It's fairly inexpensive entertainment.
I am physically fit (5'7", 130 lbs.) and work at remaining so, as it's part of my gratitude for enjoying good health. However, I'm not a gym person and I'm not hard core about my routines, nor do I deny myself food indulgences when I want them. It's very important to me that my partner is also fit and conscientious about his health. My body is not perfect by any means, and I don't expect yours to be either, but I respect someone who makes an attempt to be healthy and fit. I am not attracted to a man who has a belly or "extra padding." I've tried to overlook that in the past, and it just doesn't do it for me. I don't care how big your penis is, (although I gotta say......!!!) or how rich you are, or how tall you are, or how much hair you have, or what you drive, but I do care very much about your body type. I am a complete and utter sucker for a man with a lean belly; all other things considered. Grazing and licking a beautiful male belly turns me on beyond belief!
I won't work at trying to impress anyone, nor do I want you to try that hard. What you see is what you get with me, and I'd like you to be genuine too.
Lastly, I will answer all mail that I receive, even to say "no thanks." I think that's just common courtesy.
My Ideal Person:
A man who takes good care of himself (not a body builder, but no big bellies!) who would like to meet a smart, happy, sane, financially independent, fun woman, who has been fortunate enough that there is no heavy baggage weighing me down.
If you are "420 friendly" that's great!
Please be able to spell and punctuate and write complete sentences. Extra points if you don't use "lol" in your correspondence!
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