I am seeking lovers who are also friends. The friendship component of "Friends with Benefits" is essential to me. Something beyond the physical/sexual attraction. Sex for the sake of sex is too shallow for me. I want to do things with you outside of the bedroom once in awhile too. I have to like who you are and feel affection for you. I want to be able to have stimulating conversations with you. Trust me - I'm not needy and I'm not clingy or jealous - I'm not asking for any commitments beyond a friendship - but there has to be more than just getting naked. NSA? The strings that I want attached are that you are open and honest with me, as I will be with you. Monogamy definitely isn't a requirement for us to have a friendship, but open communication about it is.
Please send a photo of your face if you write to me and hope to meet. Looks do matter, of course. Body type matters. (See below - in bold print) But just as important as your physical appearance is what you have to say and how you say it. I am not desperate, nor am I lonely, so I reserve the right to be choosy. I have to feel a connection.
You'll either capture my attention via your photos and profile information, or not. But if you "pass" that "test", then I want to meet for conversation to gauge any further interest. Your personality makes a HUGE difference to me, as noted above.
Sex is always better with repeat performances! If we enjoy each other and we're good together, then let's do it again and again. I'm extremely sexual and passionate, but it's never going to happen unless there's a strong mental connection for me that develops after the initial physical attraction. I know what I like and I know it when I see it! Please don't be offended if I choose not to meet you, or if I choose not to be intimate with you after we meet. CHEMISTRY, ya know? Sex is one of the most delicious celebrations in life and one of the best ways in which I express myself, but it takes the right combination of looks, brains, and personality to ignite that fire in me. I crave the intensity of real intimacy that comes with discovery, friendship and affection..... Oh, and did I mention that I absolutely love to kiss?
I am physically fit (5'7", 130 lbs.) and work at remaining so, as it's part of my gratitude for enjoying good health. However, I'm not a gym person and I'm not hard core about my routines, nor do I deny myself food indulgences when I want them. I stay fit by hiking, walking and biking and always remaining active. It's very important to me that my partner is also fit and conscientious about his health. My body is not perfect by any means, and I don't expect yours to be either, but I respect someone who makes an attempt to be healthy and fit. I am not attracted to a man who has a big belly or "extra padding." I've tried to overlook that in the past, and it just doesn't do it for me. I don't care how big your penis is, (...although I gotta say......!!!) or how rich you are, or how tall you are, or how much hair you have, or what you drive, but I do care very much about your body type. I am a complete and utter sucker for a man with a lean belly; all other things considered. Grazing and licking a beautiful male belly turns me on beyond belief! Truly, the sight of a hard cock against a lean belly is irresistible to me. I will devour you if the chemistry is right.
I won't work at trying to impress anyone, nor do I want you to try that hard. What you see is what you get with me, so just be yourself. I am completely straight forward and I don't bullshit anybody.
Lastly, I will answer all mail that I receive, even to say "no thanks." I think that's just common courtesy.
My Ideal Person:
A happy, healthy, easy-going, emotionally secure man who takes good care of himself (a LEAN build, please!) who would like to meet a smart, happy, sane, financially independent, fun woman, who has been fortunate enough that there is no heavy baggage weighing me down. I've had a great life and have no chips on my shoulder regarding the men in my life. Men are my absolute favorite creatures!
If you are "420 friendly" that's great!
Please be able to spell and punctuate and write complete sentences. Say something more than how much you'd like to (fill in the blanks) me. That's not very original! Extra points if you don't use "lol" in your correspondence! 
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