I'm married, but need something more. looking for somebody that I can laugh with FIRST, and play with later. I may be the exception, but I think the best lovers start as friends, I'm not looking for sex tonight, but am looking for somebody I enjoy spending time with, and letting things progress from there. If you are just after a quick lay, don't waste both of our times, but if you are looking for somebody that is witty, sarcastic and just a touch ornery, that can make you laugh, then maybe we can talk. PS: Bonus points for NONchiseled biker types...I know you chiseled men make some women swoon, but I just prefer the teddy bear type myself...

My Ideal Person I'm looking for that special guy
that fate might bring my way
I'm beginning to doubt that I'll find him here
but I'm trying anyway.

He should make me feel at ease
from the very first hello
conversation is important
from that everything can grow.

Somebody that might think like me
and find fun in life's little quirks
Somebody that makes it worth my time
sorting through the jerks.

A man that can open up
and let me see inside
doesn't feel the need to deceive
or keep his thoughts inside

So I guess what I'm wanting
is that connection from the start
that won't last forever
but will forever touch my heart.

Updated 3/2/08

There is one point I must make
For it seems to be unclear
If you wish to talk to me,
for a day or for a year...

I don't ask for much from you
I understand you are just male
the only thing I ask is truth
honesty that shall not fail

The one thing that will make me
never speak another word to you
is getting caught in a mistruth
So be honest no matter what you do!!!