[B][I]Please know that as much as I enjoy fucking, fucking alone can get old, and I get plenty of sex whenever I want, so I'm not here looking for just more sex. My ideal man has more to bring to the table to offer in addition to sex, and conveys that upfront for me to know. [/I] [/B] I'm an accomplished, self-confident, articulate, good-hearted, independent, college-educated, intelligent (former Mensa member), unmarried, strong on personal & professional integrity, hard-working, friendly, driven, goal-oriented, career woman who has never been legally married, has not had any (have never even been pregnant, by choice) am 59 years of age, and have matured sexually and joyfully. I don't have any religious or racial hang-ups/hostilities, I've lived on the East Coast, on the West Coast, in the North, here in the South now, and have been in the military. So, I've gotten around a bit, sampled men from all over the world, learned some things of value and enlightenment along the way, and honestly enjoy my wonderful sexual health and sexual fitness at my age. I'm seeking open-relations with a few good, well-mannered, respectful, horny, generous gentlemen, could always use a new good friend with benefits, or, ideally, a compatible man who would enjoy a committed monogamous or open-relationship. Relatively uninhibited, I enjoy the company of others who also enjoy sexual pleasures, and I enjoy it all as long as it's clean, safe, legal, and fun. But, more importantly, I prefer the company of men I'm able to respect, admire, appreciate, and enjoy - men of good character, good heart, and a sound mind. I am a nonracist, liberal, bleeding-heart, agnostic/athiest, San Francisco liberalized, New England Yankee now residing in redneck, "Christian," Southern Baptist, bible-belt, Republican, Jesse Helms' country (Gastonia, NC - just outside of Charlotte) and remain in continual culture shock although living here now for over 9 years I'm so 'out of my element,' so to speak. In need of some compatible male friends, so I'm resorting to and reaching out in cyberspace for an inkling of intelligent life here at AFF instead of asking Scotty to beam me up! LOL! I enjoy mostly indoor activities such as Scrabble, foreign films, nonviolent movies, dancing, concerts, plays, operas, ballets, musicals, museums, art galleries, art auctions, art collecting, cards, dominoes, lustful sexual activities, being undressed by a man, and being photographed nude/semi-nude by a very, very lustful man, though not in that order. I am a self-employed independent paralegal advocate specializing in employment discrimination charges filed with the EEOC, disability benefit claims filed with the Social Security Administration (SSA), and federal personnel law and regulations. I committed and dedicated my life to my civil/human rights work about 35 years ago, and, as such, have never cared to be a homeowner, homemaker, housewife, or mother - I just don't have those instincts. I am health and nutrition concerned, a healthy and fairly decent cook, and recently joined a gym to become healthier. My work is a labor of love due to my love for labor, value for the working and middle-class, and my compassion for the poor and needy. My self-employment is a struggling business requiring much hard work at times serving a clientele who tend to be poor, disabled, and/or unemployed due to illiteracy and/or low IQ, and, who, otherwise, would fall through the "cracks" of our legal system in this country. So, if interested in getting to know me, experiencing me on any and/or various levels, and helping me survive my struggle so that I may continue helping others and my spirit may thrive, please, by all means, contact me! Please keep in mind that although I am a horny woman (I am not a ), I am a lady first and not to be disrespected. So, if you e-mail AND want to interest me, please do so in a respectful and gentlemanly manner by introducing yourself, sending your photo, telling me some things about your sexual likes/dislikes and matters we have in common, especially if you have not been very elaborate in your AFF profile. If you fail to do so, I may be compelled to believe you are incapable of reading comprehension, and we have no common basis for any additional communications. Lastly, I am a woman of substance in more ways than one, and of significant size currently. I stand about 5'5" and weigh about 210 lbs. and losing. Please look at my photos again to determine whether or not you are actually attracted to me physically because I do not want to again experience a scenario where both parties become eager to meet, but when we do, my weight is blamed for your erectile dysfunction issues. I'm as real and honest, as anyone can be, and need you to be honest with yourself and me! I just want to have fun, make some worthwhile friends with benefits who are able to stimulate me in more ways than just the physical, and, perhaps, eventually find Mr. Right-For-Me in the process! I'm not desperate, and don't settle. Just look, for instance, how long I've been a member of this and some other sites! I don't meet everyone who contacts me for various reasons, and I don't often see someone after meeting him initially because often the chemistry and/or compatibility factors didn't "click." The bottom line is this: I'm a partially and invisibly disabled part-time self-employed college-educated business/career woman, and I would like to add someone to my life who is sexually compatible, and mutually love and cherish each other, and, in the meantime, am open friends with benefits, and who enjoy the company and conversation of an intelligent, open-minded, independent-thinking, relatively unconventional woman who works hard struggling to survive. Time is precious and valuable, and, at my age, it's become more precious and valuable, so, if all you're interested in with me is "no strongs attached sex," please say so and be honest, and thank you for having read this far. But, if offering sex and more to make it worth my while and/or to pique my interest, then, by all means, please contact me. Thanks, again.

My Ideal Person A man who respects me for the awesome woman I am -- that means he is totally honest with himself and me whenever communicating. I'm honest, upfront, frank, and real, and you must be also in order to deal with me. I can deal with a lot of things providing I know what they are and I am doing so within my will.

I've never been attracted to the "bad boys" and have always been turned off by them (don't like mess in my life). Give me one of the good guys anytime - I know how to appreciate him, and would love us to rock each other's world! I like a man who is honest, nonracist, nonsexist, intelligent, respectful, well-mannered, politically concerned, masculine, self-supporting, erotically and sexually capable, and has good healthy habits and personal hygiene. I find myself especially attracted to me capable of original and independent thought, and who tend to be relatively unconventional in that they expand their lives, lifestyles, and life philosophies outside of the small, narrow "boxes."

I prefer a man who is college-educated, well-traveled, and/or well-read because I know a college education is not an indication of intelligent life. After all, isn't Bush a college graduate! LOL! Additionally, many Mensa members have not attended college for bona fide and commendable reasons.

For compatibility, I need a man who is emotionally mature and secure, in other words, self-confident and assertive; SHY OR JEALOUS MEN AND ME ARE JUST NOT COMPATIBLE. Until I find that man for a long-term relationship - albeit open or monogamous, I intend to enjoy myself dating a variety of men who are, at least to some degree, a reasonable and partial facsimile of my ideal man to share some wonderful lustful safe sex and friendships because I enjoy screaming orgasms, the spice and variety that comes with assorted variables, and having some fun in life. After all, what's the point of continuing to live life if not at least enjoying some of it? A rhetorical question, for sure!

I am NOT particularly interested in men who are bi-sexual, bi-curious, cross-dressers, transvestite, transexual, dishonest, criminal, insane, violent, alcoholic, drug abusers or addicted, mentally ill, illiterate, uneducated, AIDS/HIV positive, dress like thugs, or so far away, the distance makes it improbable for us to meet or sustain a relationship.

I am a responsive and sensitive woman to both external and internal touch. Subsequently, I'm looking for a man who does not have minor children at home so if we decide to be sexual in his home we will not have to concern ourselves with the confusion minor children may have due to my physical or vocal sexual responses. And neither do I want to have to constrain myself from full and total enjoyment (as I do when at home due to a nosey complaining mentally ill next door neighbor). Lastly, I so enjoy full body massages and find them to be incredibly exquisite! Any volunteers? Step in line, please! Have mercy! Is it hot in here? Just the thought of strong masculine hands caressing and kneeding my shoulders, breasts, back, inner thighs, hips, buttocks, stomach, and genitals as I write this makes me horny!

I've put a lot of time, effort, and work in this profile to provide full disclosure because I don't play games or mislead, and don't want to waste your time or mine. Please provide me with the same courtesy and respect.

Lastly, I am currently advocating the need for and benefits of our sexual health and sexual fitness, and am open to safe, fun, passionate, clean sexual encounters, fetishes or vanilla, with men or couples at times. Thank you for reading through this informative book I've written here, if you have, that is!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Sinatra, Nat Cole, Ella Fitzgerald, Doris Day, Armstrong, Streisand, Fantasia, Michael Crawford

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
My most extreme sexual fantasy is one man in my pussy, a second
man in my ass, a third man in or kissing my mouth, a fourth
man sucking my left titty as I stroke his hard cock with my
left hand, a fifth man sucking my right titty as I stroke
his hard cock with my right hand, a sixth man licking and
sucking my right foot, a seventh man licking and sucking
my left foot, and an eighth man rubbing or sucking my clit!
Can you imagine?! It gives me the shivers to imagine! What
a greedy "horny old lady, " I am! Whew!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
The only time I fantasize sex with a celebrity, is when I
just so happen see an image of George Clooney somewhere,
and it's momentarily. I don't obsess or fantasize
about celebrities as a rule because real possibilities
are more of a turn on for me.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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