IMPORTANT UPDATE:
I've had this profile posted for a while now and I've decided to make some much needed changes. First and foremost, I am a real individual. I'm not a business or solicitor so please don't assume otherwise. If you do, both of us very well might be missing out on some enjoyable evenings together.
Next, I'm changing this profile to a 'men only' listing and making a new one for women. I've also decided to leave my old profile text posted below just in case you might be interested in the progression of my time here.  Besides, much of what I was looking for in the beginning hasn't changed therefore it still contains important information regarding the type (pertaining to personality) of individual I'm interested in meeting. I've just decided to be a bit more specific on what I'm wanting and what, as a man, you can expect from me.
I'm still in a wonderful relationship, it's still 'open', and I'm still crazy in love with him so that part hasn't changed. But don't let that discourage you! He and I view sex in the same way...pure fun. We are both sexually active outside of our relationship be it as a couple for threesomes or out on our own with other individuals. Jealousy is never an issue with us. I can assure you that there will never be a problem whatsoever where that is concerned.
Now to the important part. Where do you fit in? What exactly can you expect? I don't know any other way to communicate it to you other than being straight-forward and blunt. I want you for casual sexual experiences. Ideally, you come over for an hour, we have a good time with each other sexually, and you can go on with your day or evening.
Its hard for me to explain it without, in my opinion, sounding rude or impersonal. I promise you I'm not meaning it that way. I'm very personable and friendly. I laugh a lot. I enjoy meeting people of all sorts. When you are here, you will never feel like you're just a toy nor will I ever be snooty or dismissive of you. Having said that, I expect the same from anyone I'm with. I'm not trashy. I'm not to be treated like a slut or with anything other than the utmost respect. Yes, we're meeting for sex only but I'm not looking for a bad porn movie experience. I'm intelligent, happy, well-mannered and as far from desperate or lonely as possible. I'm simply a woman who loves having sexual experiences with different types of individuals.
Finding someone to see on a regular basis would be perfect but will not always be the case. Regardless of that, even if we're meeting as often as once a week or more, it will always be a sexual meeting where we enjoy each other for that brief period of time and then part ways. There's no need for social upkeep between meetings although I do find the occasional sexy text message or email highly enjoyable. Pillow talk isn't required, even initial talking isn't all that necessary. Honestly, I'm just as likely to start kissing you when you walk in the door as I am to say 'Hello'.
Lastly, please keep in mind that while I'm looking for casual encounters that does not translate into me being willing to have sex with any man who crosses my path. I'm still very discerning when it comes to my sexual partners. Physical attraction is obviously needed but your personality is equally as important. I like men who are confident but not arrogant, who present themselves intelligently, respectfully, and who are polite.
Also, I prefer single men. Considering that I'm not single, this requirement may seem hypocritical but I've found that not everyone is as honest with their partners as I am with mine. It took only one recent experience with an angry female calling at 4 in the morning to understand the wisdom of such a mandate. While I may not practice monogamy, I certainly do not wish to be in the middle of a relationship that is supposed to be monogamous. If she doesn't know, for both your sakes, don't do it. Sex, no matter how great it is, simply isn't worth it.
So many people here seem to offer NO Strings Attached evenings but I'm not sure they're being honest with themselves. I, on the other hand, am not really interested in anything other than that. I love afternoon quickies or longer sessions at night. Often, its on short notice. Sometimes, I simply get in the mood for something different. Other times, I'm making specific plans for it. But every time will be for sex only.
For those of you comfortable with such a scenario, please write. We will have fun.
My one 'law of the land' is safe sex. Condoms are always required. If you leave it at home, you'll be making a trip to the closest drugstore.
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I'm a happily attached thirty year old woman looking to expand on an already incredible sex life. My boyfriend and I have a very open relationship so he fully supports my interests in this. What I'm looking for is a woman who wants to have fun. I'm not necessarily seeking a sexual friendship but I would prefer it if this person is willing to do so if things click. My hopes are that it will ultimately lead to an intimate relationship with a woman I enjoy being with on a fairly regular basis and who isn't looking for or expecting any emotional attachments. If she is willing to include my boyfriend, either for participation or simply watching, then all the better. He's an amazing man and the thought of sharing a woman with him is a huge turn-on for me.
I'm also wanting to experience a threesome with another man and my boyfriend, or have sex with a man while my boyfriend watches. His participation can be direct or indirect but he at least will be observing.
I have couples listed as something I am looking for but I am only interested in the female. I won't be joining any threesomes, at least not initially, so unless it's okay for the woman to play alone then it's probably best to not contact me.
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FOR SINGLE MEN:Gentlemen, I do appreciate the attention but in the interest of saving time for both of us I'd like to offer some advice. One-liner emails to the tune of "Hey, you're hot!", "What's up, baby?", or "If you're interested, write me back." will not be responded to. It shows lack of real interest on your part and will be greeted by the same from me. Conversely, if you take a little time in composing a nice, personal introduction I promise to respond even if it's simply to tell you that I feel we aren't compatible.
Please don't bother trying to be clever or charming. I'll take genuine, intelligent, and respectful any day. Describing the type of acts you want to perform on me and your methods for them is an instant turn-off. As sexual in nature as this site may be, I'm looking for people to actually meet not have cyber-sex with. That being the case, my meeting with you is contingent entirely upon my intuitive level of trust of you and your initial behavior is the only basis I have to make that determination.
Also, if you live a greater distance from me than you're willing to drive both ways in one day then there really is no need to write to me. As I said before, while I love the attention I am here to meet people. I don't want pen pals. Network invitations will be declined, as well. I will invite you if and when I think the time is right.
I hope this didn't come off as cold or mean. I am very real, friendly, and approachable. I just don't enjoy sifting through loads of worthless messages. I sincerely hope to find some nice guys to have fun with my boyfriend and me. If you really think you're one of them then don't hesitate to write. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.
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My Ideal Person:
I want an attractive intelligent woman who is open, honest, sexually out going, fun to be around, and respectful to both herself and others. I realize those traits are far from original but they're important to me all the same. Simply put, I'm looking for a woman who knows how to have fun and knows how to behave in public. How she behaves behind closed doors is another thing entirely. I'm hoping that any friendships will eventually become sexual in nature so physical appearance/attraction is also important therefore, pictures are a must prior to any meetings. Lastly, I do not do drugs nor am I interested in spending time with someone who does so please keep that in mind when responding.
Much the same applies to any potential male partner but first and foremost he must be comfortable in the presence of another man and must always be respectful, polite, and fun to be around.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds
Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.
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