BEFORE YOU READ ON: You should be willing to- show photos of not just your cock but please show your face and body,talk to me on the phone,meet for drinks,have a place of your own, or at least be able to invite me to your place, be single,and you must be able to perform well while using a condom(no condoms -no sex).I am patient and loving but "erectile dysfunction" or an inability to use condoms is completely out of the question.There is no excuse for not practicing safe sex.I have no problem if you need to take performance enhancement drugs.I actually love it.I can go for hours,so if you can also that is a very nice plus.Let me know that about you.
I am completely free of any issues/D&D free and clear/tested regularly,every 6 months.You must absolutely be the same.That means you have worn condoms every time you had sex,ok?
Following is a poetic description of what I love in a man:
The ideal man is ruggedly handsome, safe and loves satisfying women while pleasing himself with every attribute a woman has to offer.He has stamina ,enjoys fucking as much as breathing. He's straight and steady, a friend who loves to fascinate me with his cock. He is open to romance if that develops.He is open to adventure when that appears.There is anticipation when he looks at me. He cares for himself but never more than he cares for someone else.He knows I want him.He thinks before doing.He realizes his potential and he never wonders if "he should have done that."Opportunities for sex are boundless and women adore him,but when he's with me he's only with me.James Bond he may not be but the average guy that knows how to be erotic,brave, and find passion with fulfillment.
I'm seeking a friend/lover,a friend with benefits.It does not have to be exclusive, unless we both want that.If I have sex with you once that means I expect to see you again.I want to meet a steady and real guy who likes my company and loves to fuck.I look for that quality that distinguishes men from boys and gentlemen from cads: Maturity.What that means is you can have casual sex and enjoy it but keep your sense of balance as a human being and not resort to lying,cheating,or degrading and downplaying other people to get what you want.It means having concern for other people's feelings.In other words if you are rude even once,I won't trust you,and will leave,politely if possible.There is no point in hanging around if somone is unpleasant.
I am not asking for a boyfriend,should there be any misunderstanding about that. I only need a friendship that involves fucking,conversation,and empathy to each other's needs.I am completely discreet.I do not kiss and tell.Whatever happens for us remains between us.
I am a size 12/13,vuluptous,meaning curved in all the good places.I am height/weight proportionate and healthy and fit.I workout.I could lose about 10 lbs or more.Most of us could do that so I would say I'm average.Please don't expect the extremely chiselled athletic body of a skinny girl but the soft curvy physique of a BBW who is fit and full at the top.You have to enjoy the look of a Real Woman."Real women have curves."
I am mid life,a 40....soon to be,happily single woman still exploring sexuality and sensuality but also the possibility of a relationship.I treat men with complete and utter respect.I look extremely good for my age.I take excellent care of myself.
I am a tiny bit of a closet Geek/Nerd with an above average IQ.I love to talk to people about everything and anything.My main interests are Psychology and Anthropology.Intelligent, even controversial conversations are welcome any time.Tell me your thoughts.I promise to appreciate them.
If you are ready to treat me as an equal,I don't care what age you are.I prefer men in their 30's,40's,but if you are under 30 and want to chat and see how that goes we can.[I]Thanks for reading all this.
My Ideal Person:
Tall,sexy,bold and fit. Men from 26 to 50...
I will make very few exceptions if you are 18 to 25 only because that's too young,under most circumstances.No offense, but too little experience mixed with overconfidence does not make a boy a man.Neither does sleeping with an older woman give you a lead in sexual growth.I've learned it's too much too soon and not worth the trouble.Young men are beautiful but too unstable. They should stay with girls in their own age group and discover who they are.Hope you all have fun and the time of your lives!I appreciate looking at you and seeing your potential.That's fun.
I have these standards: old enough to know how its done,consensual sex,respectful,nothing weird,lusty but sane, and done right! What can I say? I LOVE SEX...but I'm selective.
Hate drama,put downs or otherwise aggressive behavior. I am polite and respectful.I don't enjoy "the GAME."I'm straight forward and tell it like it is,at least as I see it.I have no time for mind fucks.I am fun, easy going,sweet and have a cynical and silly sense of humor.
Condoms are a must. Men with a sense of humor and a sense of good-natured fun in bed are the best. Without question the best feature on a man is a large erect cock ready for pleasure.I'm sexually free,yet I am selective about choosing sex partners. No married or attached men looking for fun outside the marriage.I cannot handle the complications or the guilt involved.If I trust a man and he wants to experiment or bring others in to have fun with us discreetly,that idea I am open to.My partner would have to arrange it and I'd have to agree to it.I'm probably not going to get any crazier than that! (No Bisexual men unless you really love women and have experience mostly with women.No men who have transexuals as lovers as well as women.That just goes beyond my boundries.Sorry.I can respect you.I just won't join you.For those who are of the Dominant or Submissive Male Groups -I am not going to do any of that! As said before, no hostile or demeaning behaviors have ever turned me on or ever will.)
If you are just here for erotic chat.That's a waste of time.I'm not into hours of it.I like to chat for a moment then move on to talking and meeting in person.If you make me type for more than 15 minutes I will probably stop you ,unless you are extremely interesting.Get out of the house and get some human contact!!
I will NOT show nude pictures on here or live cams of nudity.( Maybe if I get to know you and we have seen each other for a while I would show you something on a cam.)
I don't invest time in out of town visitors.One night stands with men in hotel rooms are not my way of playing.(It isn't realistic that I would see you again.)If you just want to meet me for a drink or dinner and some company while you're here, then maybe I would agree to that.If you vist LA often, then we could always see how that goes.
I am serious about finding a play mate and friend.We can chat,exchange photos,then call each other,meet for a drink and move on from there.I want to stay safe and be assured that we have chemistry and that we have a few things in common.I will always be a polite and caring person to meet in person.If we clique wonderful.If we don't, then that is OK.No harm done.Every person you meet is an opportunity to learn something new.Be yourself!
I love intelligent,free spirited,open communication. I have learned a world of information about sex and the modern man from members who have shared stories on Adult FriendFinder. I am very grateful for the education. Share your thoughts.I'd love to hear what you think.
Send an email, thanks! Look forward to chat with you.You must have a photo with your email or I will not respond.STANDARD MEMBERS CAN CONTACT ME.(I don't show nude photos of myself but I will show you face and other pictures if we begin emailing.We should both share face and body pics before meeting.That's only fair.)If you want me to add you to a friends list,I prefer you have a picture.Please send an accurate and current picture of YOU.Some men have been known to send pictures of someone else because they don't wish to be recognized.That's deceptive and unfair.Because of that I will meet you in a public place first.That way we both have nothing to fear.My pictures are current and only me.
Photos are two dimensional,but there should be an unwaivering resemblance between the picture and the subject,ok?
I appreciate courtesy and thoughtfulness.The best sex happens when there is respect.Enjoy your self and put a big smile on some one's face today!
You can write to me in English,Spanish,French and Italian.I will understand your emails.I am fluent in English and Spanish.My French and Italian are best practiced in person but I can understand what you write to me. If you speak these languages I'd love to talk to you!
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Rob Thomas , Shakira, Tina Turner, Aretha Franklin, Elvis, FrankSinatra, Frankie
Vali /Four Seasons
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm open to anything.Fantasies are something I'd
share in person.
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I would embarass the man with everything I'd love to
try with him.I'll share that fantasy, if you ask me
to, better yet, live in the real world and have sex with
someone available.
Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.
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