I'm a 50-something single woman living near San Luis Obispo in Central California. I've been married twice - now widowed a bit over 10 years. No . I enjoy finding sensuality in many areas - sunsets, scents, soft cloth, food (vegetarian for me, please - but I don't care what anybody else prefers), and a sensuous kiss or pair of hands. Please... if you're married and sneaking, bi, bi-curious, or under 5'10", do not write me. Think of the electrons that will thereby not die in vain....

My Ideal Person I'm not sure exactly what I'm looking for - maybe I'll know it when I see it...LOL...

BUT... I'M NOT INTERESTED IN BEING A MARRIED GUY'S FUCKBUDDY. Don't want to have sex with someone who won't/can't sleep with me....at least some of the time.

I do know I'm not looking to get married again. That could happen, but it would have to be a really special dude...
I'd like a relationship with a man I could trust (as I do get tired of condoms) and it seems foolhardy these days to have a lot of partners.
I think I'd like to find one guy with whom to have sex one or two nights (days?) a week... Maybe more, but not less...
I realize how lame it sounds to put some kind of a number on sexual frequency. I just know from experience that if it averages less than that over a period of time, my eye will wander - either toward a replacement or a supplement.

That said, my preference would be for someone who shares my sexual passion but other things and interests as well - not just a "fuckbuddy" (married or not).
I'm a fraction under 6 feet tall, and prefer a guy who's taller than I.
I tend to find men with hairy chests more appealing. (Yeah, even a hairy back is fine...LOL...)
As for sex... (and this relates partly to a guy's age, perhaps)... while I enjoy oral sex, I only climax completely when a man cums inside me. Oral sex just isn't a substitute for intercourse. (If it were, I might be looking for a woman )(And yes, girls, I have tried women.)
So if your Viagra doesn't work for that... we're probably not a good match. But assuming a man does satisfy me in my pussy often enough, I really enjoy having him cum in my mouth or throat as well...
(I have fantasized at times about being with 2 men at the same time, but it's not something I've experienced often).

As for age... I seem to have dated more guys who are a bit younger than I am. But my experience meeting men under 30 has been unproductive.

You may gather from my profile that I'm a rather strong woman, not afraid of my sexuality. And I am strong, physically as well as mentally/emotionally. I've worked primarily in male-dominated jobs most of my life. I have a lot of upper body strength - in no small part from having stood on my head since my early 20s.
I like being with a man who's comfortable with his masculinity and strength... so I can sink down into enjoying my femininity... and lie with my head on his shoulder or his arm around me afterwards, feeling his warm wetness running down my thigh...

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Mutual Masturbation

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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