Hello! I'm the nice girl who's about to finish FIRST. I'm your typical shy girl, only I'm not so typical. I have a brain and intelligence and I know how to use both. My friends would tell you I'm smart, fun to be around, intelligent, honest but tactful, with a goofy sense of humor.....I love to laugh which is why I keep the radio tuned to comedy 150 on xm radio, my sister would add sassy to the above and my youngest brother might say I'm a pain in the butt! LOL In the grand scheme of things, I've been divorced since 1995. And it wasn't until about two years ago that I decided I would like someone in my life again. The question has been asked.....why did you wait 10 years to make that decision?.....I was busy. Busy with work, school, the Coast Guard Auxiliary, and life in general. Plus I went to Guam. Which isn't as exotic as it sounds. LOL So, now here I am ready and waiting for the next big adventure to come along.

My Ideal Person Someone with a good sense of who he is and what he wants out of life. Who finds life an adventure. With a great sense of humor who can laugh at the absurdities of life. Honest to the core and willing to share his life and his innermost thoughts. Who is ready for a relationship with no baggage attached. Who really wants something long term and fabulous.

And in answer to the many questions, I'm looking for a man who isn't afraid of intelligence, who knows how and when to use HIS intelligence and knows HE will be appreciated. Someone who is looking for more than just a one night stand. Perhaps there isn't anyone brave enough or has the moxie to deal with a woman like me who is honest, tactful, kind, generous to a fault, and unafraid of her own sensuality. That being said....I don't want anyone to think I am a bed hopper. Au contraire mon frair. I am looking for the first, last and best love of my life.

Are you ready for what could be the greatest adventure of your life?

By the by, I'm NOT looking for a man who is ALREADY MARRIED. I've no desire to add to the burden of someone's spouse who either knows or doesn't know what her man is doing. Believe me I know how it hurts. You only need to have your spouse cheat on you once and destroy your trust in him or her.... because yes, Virginia, it happens to men too.

SO.....I am looking for someone who hasn't lost the ability to dream, who knows the value of romantic overtures as holding the door open for his lady or sending a flower for no reason at all. Someone who would defend his love's honor should it be besmirched. I am not afraid to admit that I haven't lost the dream or the romantic urges because I have sent a flower to the one I loved for no reason and I am a fierce defender of my love as well.

WHERE the heck are you??????

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Bon Jovi, Journey, Kenny Chesney, Big and Rich, Gretchen

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I've had a lot of time to think about this and I am at the
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What....WHAT is it??! I hear the frustrated cries. LOL
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My fantasy is of having someone, long term, who loves to
be touched as much as I do. Who loves to be hugged as much as
I do. Who loves to kiss as much as I do. Who loves to make love
as much as I do. I have had a thought in the back of my head for
years now that making love in a body of water would be pretty
interesting. Salt water has it's share of danger....stinging
jellyfish, riptides, surfers, boats, jetskis and sharks!
Now that I think of it.....a pool might be safer! LOL

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, good old fashioned love making

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
I had a huge crush on DeForrest Kelley who played Dr. McCoy
on the old Star Trek series. But as I was very young I didn't
know a thing about sex so my fantasy extended only to falling
in love with him and getting married.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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