My Ideal Person:
So a new year... a slightly new outlook. Traits that I do consider when meeting a man are: I look for an honest and sincere man. A man who knows himself and what he wants and knows how to keep it.... a man with true integrity; kindness and a good heart.... He will understand just how important communication is: he must be open, honest and be able to come to me anytime/ anywhere, about anything; and, trust that I will always be there to listen and to talk. If we are not open and communicating we will never be able to take care of each others wants and needs.

He will know how to treat a lady as she deserves to be treated in and out of the bedroom. I am very open minded and will try anything once; yet want to feel I can laugh with my partner if we happen to "goof" it up or make fools of ourselves! Love and sex are supposed to be fun; not complicated and boring. I am looking for a man who loves to laugh, too, and who can be spontaneous.

Most of us are here to add something to our lives, not replace something and by understanding each others boundaries and having mutual respect for one another, we can all have a wonderful time. Ideal people to me are those who understand why they are in this lifestyle and who realize that this is a mutual pleasureable undertaking in which both parties should be comfortable. I'm looking for drama-free people who are real and genuine. I emphasize the word "real" to highlight the fact that the computer is essentially an elaborate facade. You can never be completely sure who is behind the profile. All I ask is that you be honest and up-front with me and ask questions if you are unsure of something. Most importantly, don't lie -it will only complicate things. Sadly, I have found that there are a significant number of people on this site who misrepresent themselves or that aren't serious about their stated intentions and thus are essentially time wasters. If you are one of these people, please leave me out of your game. So what am I looking for? A lot of sensual and erotic times of course but what I'd love to find is someone to share this crazy life/lifestyle with. Someone aware of their own sexuality and not afraid to express their desires, needs, wants and fantasies. Someone who enjoys every aspect of passionate, erotic, indulgent, sensual connections between consenting adults, keeping things hot, steamy, playful, intense and worth every second of our time! It is all in the name of fun, enjoyment and pleasure, but always about something I find to be a meaningful experience. Sexy, to me, comes in many different forms. A sexy smile, nice eyes, clean, smells great, a wicked sense of humor, and intelligence go a long way with me in what I find attractive. Someone local would be preferable, but I'm willing to entertain the idea of an encounter with someone within a reasonable distance if I feel you are what I'm looking for.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.