I guess we will figure it out. I would be described by friends as a bit of a paradox. Somewhat of a "tom boy" with casual style yet, also feminine and demure. Prefer quiet times and simple pleasures and lots of warm, sunny days outside keeps my spirit young and healthy. I much prefer the company of a special someone or a couple of close friends. I have a lot of varied interests and would like to find someone to share them with. I am willing to try new things because that it is what life is all about, experiencing as much as possible and enjoying what we can.
I'm honest, sincere, open minded, non-judgemental, kind, loyal friend & empathetic listener (two ears, one mouth...God had a plan!). Laugh! Fun!! Independent (no "clinging vine"), but not so independent that I can't play nice with others! Dance, dance, dance!! Hot and fast! Or slow and hot... The music in my soul...Blues to rock to country! Can you hear it? Can you feel it? Adventure. Road trip!! Off the beaten path. Picnic. Swim. (No mucky bottom, please! And yes, fish DO BITE!) Campfire. A beach under the stars. Something new!
I'm not the type of woman who is afraid to get dirty, wet, break a nail or mess my hair, whether it be for work or play. But I do clean up REALLY well! I do "enjoy being a girl", know how to dress appropriately for different occasions and that includes wearing heels and stockings! I have had varied life experiences which make me who I am today. And I continue to be a work in progress! I may be middle aged but I'm not done yet, not by a long shot!! If we don't have our dreams, I think we're brain dead and ready for the long dirt nap.
Lake Superior is a place of renewal for me. Leaning into the wind on a rocky shore and feeling the spray on my face, my clothing snapping in the wind...what an experience! Are you ready? I've been transplanted all over Michigan, but the UP is my home now.
I think I have shown you a bit of my humorous side, but I can be serious. I do know that if you can't laugh, the tough stuff in life will mow you down. I'm sure you have had your share of "the stuff" as well. You don't get to be a grown-up like us without it. That must be where the wisdom comes from... I attempt to bring my best, healed self (though not perfect) into a relationship. I do want the same in return. If you've read THIS far and find yourself intrigued or ready for a road trip, there is a possibility for something special. Or at least an adventure! And a good friend.
I do know that a good relationship without the garbage is possible. Thankfully, I have had that experience. I also have experienced the garbage. A good, healthy relationship with the right man would be a wonderful adventure. Even though it seems a little "scary" as I write this! Whew..
Now, pat yourself on the back for reading through ALL this! Wasn't so bad was it? Ready to click
My Ideal Person:
As for you, I would like if you are smart, kind of mischievous, reasonably well mannered and wildly confident about some aspect of your being. At this point in your life, you have a pretty clear idea about what makes you tick. You think we'd have a great time doing all sorts of stuff. You're communicative, deliciously affectionate, perceptive, tender and a grown-up, at least when it comes to the important things. Quality is something you strive for in many aspects of your existence. You make an effort to take reasonably good care of yourself. Like me, you are not in this for dates but rather the wacky notion that it might lead to an enduring and satisfying connection. Right?! You won't regret it!
If you like snowmobiles, have a motorcylce and love to have a woman behind on either one...then look no further. Do you like Nascar, football or like to fish...then bonus....
If you are married, bi-curious male or don't list your marital status..forget about it, I'm not interested.
What are your favorite musicians or bands?: I have several
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: This is something I would be willing to expolre with a partner
What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Massage
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?: not yet...
Have you ever had cybersex?: I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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