My Ideal Person:
You aspire to your own personal greatness, meaning you want to be the best you that you can be! You have a beautiful heart and love being who you are. You know what's real and important to you, and have your priorities set in your mind. If you are right for me, you're in the proximity of 56-63 you know how to enjoy and celebrate your life. You totally understand what I mean by 'a strong spiritual context for your life.' You also long to discover a partner whose love and allegiance will only strengthen and grow through time. You carry the basics of tradition, however you're not a captive of it. Ideally, you are open to new possibilities, points of view and life experiences. You love pleasuring your appreciative partner AND are most grateful and willing to receive pleasure as well. You are pretty much a non-judgmental person, and can support me in my current endeavors to lose 35 lbs. I am 5'5" tall. You value honesty, integrity and recognize the extreme importance of true communication (even when it's not always what you want to hear or what you want to say). You take pride in being genuine and authentic. You acknowledge your human-ness and embrace your imperfections. You are the person you have always wanted to be and strive to continue to expand into your greater self. You are a sensual, loving, caring, and sexually-active partner. You have a generous spirit and recognize that love is what is most important in all of life. If my words have touched your heart, please let me know.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
There was a video made years ago to the song Loverboy by Billy
Ocean which really turned me on. This "Beauty &
the Beast" lion-looking character is riding on a
horse along the ocean, his long hair blowing in the wind.
He arrives at this other-worldly nightclub where his 'woman'
is hanging out and flirting with another man. He enters
the nightclub, roars a bit at her, then scoops her up in his
arms, takes her out to his horse and they ride off together
down the beach. I believe my true fantasy is being "claimed"
by someone as being theirs. It excites and titillates me
to imagine being claimed in that way.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place, A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, At a nightclub, Anywhere, a remote beach or forest setting would be delightful.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Yes, for years I fantasized about being lovers with James
Spader. There's a quality he embodies that has always
intrigued and fascinated me. Even the roles he has chosen
over the years are intriguing in themselves.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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