I'm the girl next door. I enjoy staying in shape and feeling young. I am very real, down to earth with a sense of humor and zest for life. I love to feel sexy (and enjoy being told so) :)) I was fortunate enough to marry a man (who is very sexy, the best lover and who I love deeply) who takes pride in denying me nothing in life. Let's face it, the only bad thing about a wonderful marriage, is the whole "monogomy piece" right? I mean there's a lot of people attracted to others for various and numerous reasons. Being mature and very secure in our relationship we decided to "break free" from tradition and not deny each other the opportunity to fulfill fantasies with other "like" people. The idea that he encourages me to seek and explore with someone else, turns me on even more... so I have permission to not only look, but play. So I'm finally taking him up on it and I'm looking forward to it!! My safety, being disease free and practicing safe sex (condoms)are very important to both. High vis job and volunteer work in community calls for public discretion. No freaks or serious pervs need apply. [B]UPDATE - Please don't ask to be in my Network without an album of your own and/or already on my Hotlist. [/B] Thanks!

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone that makes me feel comfortable enough to open up to new experiences at my pace. Chemistry and attraction are a must. I'm not "hard core porn" material...so if passion and sensuality are unbeknown by you, we're probably not a good match. I love soft tender kisses, and "spooning". A before meet is nice... drinks, lunch or dinner, in order to see if we even "click". I'm attracted to physically fit men with a zest for life and a sense of humor. My theme song could be "Live Like You Were Dying"... for I agree life is too short and each day taken for granted by most. You'll know I'm for real immediately and visa versa... if it's not a fit, no feelings are hurt and if it is, we'll share something hopefully neither of us will ever forget. I'm sure after reading this, my responses will have decreased by at least half... if you're still "hanging in there" I look forward to your detailed correspondence and please have a face pic or a full body shot. Thanks for your kind words and your correspondence!
The remainder of this portion is from my husband and is non-negotiable: This is the deal guys. The following is Quality Control screening. I will meet all potential lovers or friends prior to you meeting her in person for the initial, non-intimate meeting. One and two line profiles or those with minimum info will be deleted and then accepted after you have fixed that problem. Any e-mail without a face pic or a full body pic not included with the e-mail or in your profile gets you permanently blocked. Those with only a cock shot, one line e-mails, requests to get together tonight or are traveling through town, married without permission, etc..will also get your profile blocked permanently. If contacted and you are married/attached I will confirm with your mate telephonically that you can play. Update: "Prefer not to say" on marital status and "Looking for discreet encounters" makes me assume your married without permission, so the above applies. You can't join her network if you don't have an album of your own or aren't on her hotlist, she's very selective of her network. Invitations to do so without these minimums will be declined without explanation. If you didn't read her profile then you really don't care what she's about nor concerned about her wants and desires. So I "honestly" don't care what your reason for contacting her is. Therefore, I "truly" enjoy permanently blocking your profile because it is obvious that it's all about Your wants and not hers. I do Quality Control screening (and block)tens of e-mails daily from guys are looking for self-gratification only. Which applies to only a few. So deleting & blocking those canidates is unseen to her and makes my screening of her e-mail much easier. Thanks if you got this far into the profile for being truly interested in her and thanks for making things easier on me if you didn't. If you would, assist with improving the quality of the photo's we take by voting on your favorite ones. Thanks for your interest. The Editor/Hubby

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, Under a waterfall, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
if we click - you'll have to find out the old fashion
way.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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