*~*~*This is a mini novel so be forewarned!*~*~* A beautiful Mess is exactly how someone described me and somehow I found it a compliment. I am Kati or Katilyn( pronounced Katie lyn...long story was supposed to be Kaitlyn and my mother mispelled it so I am Katilyn). I am 22 graduated in last Dec with a bachelors in Business. I already own my own business or at least I am starting my own business. The bog mess part is recently I took custody of my two younger half brothers(ages 10 and 12) because my father decided somehow he is not meant to be a parent. Like I did not already know that, but I did not want my brothers suffering the same fate I did growing up so I took him to court and gained custody. So I am "mom". I want to be upfront with people and let them know that I have been diagnosed with MS( multiple sclerosis), so like if that freaks you out then so be it. If you have any questions about it then feel free to ask. It does tend to have some effect on my peral life. Most guys have no clue how to deal with it so they just drop me. BUT I just wanted to be up front ! So more about me, well I am pretty outgoing and active. I love the outdoors and sports! Sexually ha well I am mostly innocent when it comes to that. I have had sex twice since I was 16. I have figured out casual sex is not for me so why I am still on this site hmmm cause I have made some great friendships!

My Ideal Person Not entirely sure what it is I seek. I definitely not the sleep around type of girl, never have been don't think I can ever be. My sexual experience is limited but I am not quite the type to fuck just to fuck. I would enjoy someone who I can be initimate with but not "go all the way" with. I have yet to experience oral from a man(I have from another girl but I was like 13 and it did not bring me to orgasm).

MY TYPE: well I am usually one to not be stuck on looks because looks do not make the person. I do not get stuck on fancy wrappings I prefer to know what is inside even or especially when it comes to intimacy. Communication is key! Oh I suppose there has to be some physical attraction but I also can find something appealing about most anyone. Bad grammar and spelling tend to be a turn off for me. I dont mind the typos that happen because I am far from perfect in that aspect but it is all the stupid gangster slang stuff annoys me. Now trust me I am about as country hick as you can get for someone not raised in the South but I do not like being called Ma, or Boo nor do I holla( now I may holler sometimes but never holla).

Ok sheesh I rambled but it is just the way I am at times. Just a not here since I have had a recent experience with someone. If we discuss meeting but we do not converse on the phone or make 100% solid plans then I will not show up. BY solid plans I mean time, place, car we both are driving and so forth. Not ok let's meet at so on so place on Wed or whatever. I want a little more than vague plans.