I'm an attractive, professional southern woman seeking a [I]nice, and sometimes naughty, [/I][I]very fit[/I], [I]reasonably well endowed gentleman [/I]for an occasional pleasant encounter. I have honey blond hair and blue eyes and am in reasonably good shape. I enjoy sex very much but am in a marriage where for various reasons it has not been present in some time. It is a complex situation, but suffices to say that we have an "open marriage," agreement. I am respectful and discreet. I'm looking for an attractive, "energetic" man who would like to occasionally spend some time with me. (Gentlemen, I'm looking for a compatible physical partner...please don't take offense as we all have our preferences ... but I would suggest that you not respond if you are over 50, overweight (aka extra padding), or shorter than 5'9." Also, after viewing many inquiries, I'm adding the following: You are wasting your time writing me if your handle has "downlow," "homeboy," or an equivalent term in it; if you have cropped (badly) a woman out of your photo (hint: take a new photo); or, if you've misspelled more than five words in your e-mail. Trust me, we won't be compatible.

My Ideal Person I am attracted exclusively to intelligent, successful, well-adjusted alpha males. I enjoy a man who can let the bad boy come out to play with the naughty girl ... but behind closed doors. I favor someone with a good heart, who smiles with his eyes...who is kind to kids and animals, who doesn't necessarily place sex as the top of his list, but it is always on his list. You don't have to be totally "cut" but being physicially fit, a non-smoker and disease free are critical. (I do want to emphasize that I very much appreciate a buff guy.) I like someone who can laugh easily, that doesn't always have to be on center stage (but can take it when needed), and who can make love with both wild, aggressive abandon and tenderness. I enjoy feeling the power of a male, so I like to be with one who will show that to me. In fact, with someone I trust, I could even be up for some, shall we say, "alternative" activities. I enjoy a good conversation, can hold up my end of the bargain, and would hope for the same in return. I prefer attractive gentlemen 29-49, but if you believe you have the qualities above and you are in the "age" ballpark, feel free to send a note.

Initially, I thought all I wanted was just a physical relationship. While that remains true, I find that I want a bit more than that. I prefer to spend my time with someone who will care if when I leave their company I'm run over in the parking lot; who will refrain from flipping on the TV immediately when sex is finished; who would even see me on occasion if sex is not in the picture.

To me the sharing of one's body is the most intimate thing a person can do. So, I prefer to reserve the physical experience to share with someone who demonstrates an understanding that what I am sharing has value and that I have value. So, along with a physical experience, I do hope for some level of companionship. If you do not intend to return my (occasional)e-mails or calls, or if you cannot be courteous enough to tell me in advance if you have to cancel a meeting, please DO NOT E-MAIL ME. (Can you tell that I've had these experiences ... yes, there are some cads out there and if you think you may be one, stay away!)

I am not asking for formalities, pledges, rings or baubles ... but plain, simple courtesy, the kind of courtesy you would extend to any friend.

I don't intend to sound rude, but if you don't fit the outline of what I'm seeking, or if you are just playing on the computer with no intention of meeting, please don't send a note and waste your time or mine. (And, yes, "I am for real" for those who ask. Everything here is totally accurate.) Before we meet, I will want to share photos first. Also, I have a very busy job right now and it may take me a couple of weeks (on occasion) to reply. PLEASE NOTE: If I do not reply, it most certainly doesn't mean I do not find you likable or perhaps quite personable, but it could mean that I'm not seeing in your note or profile the "spark" it takes to move it further. Once in a while, I make a mistake, don't see your e-mail, or just forget to reply; don't hesitate to send a second e-mail if the mood strikes. Thanks so much for viewing my profile; I sincerely hope you find the physical enjoyment and companionship you are seeking.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
MMMM, only for those I know best.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, Exam table.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No. I like real men.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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