I will be leaving this site on March 17. Why? Because one of the members on here played a heartless, cruel joke on me and changed his profile to reflect his DOB as the last one listed in my profile and then wrote me a very nice message (everything I wanted to hear) and then changed his DOB again and never wrote me again. Why do men do that? It was cruel and very disappointing to me. But for the record, I REALLY would like to hear from a NICE, tall, white, man born on a date listed; and truly, I have it narrowed down to SEVEN birthdates, namely, 12/4/42, 10/17/42, 11/20/47, 11/17/48, 6/20/44, 6/20/51 or 10/19/1950. PLEASE Please do not contact me unless you were born on one of these dates; if you were NOT born on a date listed in the 'top' seven, I am leaving the original list on here - these are 99 DOBS out of the nine years I want to consider. Thank you for understanding and if you want to play cruel and heartless jokes, please play them on someone else. If you want to contact me, PLEASE be born on a date listed and in your subject, please put "I WAS BORN on a DATE listed in your profile and would like to know more about you". Again, thank you for understanding.
1953
August 21-24, 1953
October 6-18, 1953
December 3-5, 1953
December 16-19, 1953
1952
January 14-18, 1952
September 20, 1952
October 19-21, 1952
1951
January 17 - January 19, 1951
June 18 – June 20, 1951
December 19-December 22, 1951
1950
Sept 20-23, 1950
October 14-Oct. 22, 1950
December 6-7, 1950
1948
November 15-22, 1948
1947
August 12-13, 1947
November 18, 1947 – November 22, 1947
1944
June 16 – June 20, 1944
August 21-24, 1944
September 21-23, 1944
October 9-12, 1944
1943
October 21-24, 1943
November 22-23, 1943
1942
October 16-18, 1942
December 4,1942
(WOULD REALLY LIKE TO HEAR FROM A DECEMBER 4, 1942!)Hopefully, he will be HEALTHY with no major medical issues, exercises regularly and likes to dance to the oldies from 50's and early 60's.
I REALIZE my profile is VERY LONG; but the way I look at it is: If you met someone at a party, a bar, a church gathering, a grocery store, etc., and you thought you might want to possibly consider further communication, would you or would you not spend 15-20 minutes talking to her at said event? I see no difference in that and reading a profile which takes 15-20 minutes to read. Thank you for taking this actually short period of time to get to know the REAL ME!
If you EVER passionately kissed or intimately embraced another woman while married or in a partnership; or if you have EVER been called a pathological liar, an alcoholic and/or a cheater, move to the next ad. While you may not consider yourself in these categories, you MUST have expressed yourself in such a way to another person; I just do not want that kind of stress in my life. I do not want to think I need to look in your wallet or vehicle to see if you have another woman's contact info; I do not want to wake up at night and hear you on the phone or emailing with another woman; I just do not need nor do I want that kind of stress. An 84 year old man told me "I lost two wives from my cheating ways; there are just some men who HAVE to HAVE another woman dangling". I do not want to be a 'dangle'. Nor will I be!
It is important for me to find a good man who is completely trust worthy and FAITHFUL; has come to grips with the philosophical issues which plague all folks as they mature, including SHRINKING. Since I am tall, I am looking for a TALLER partner and if you would, please notice my complexion in my pictures; I do NOT tan!! I avoid a hot sun; love the beach; but go to the beach in early morning or evenings!
I am 5 feet 8 5/8 inches tall (Feb 2009) and if you SAY you are 5'11" and we meet and I tower over you, what will you say? If you have hanging breasts or a big belly, you should know what to do (move to next profile). I want a partner whose weight is in proportion; If you are on the slim side, fine; otherwise, If you are 6 feet even, you should weigh 182-200; 6 feet 1, you should weigh between 188-207, six feet 2 should be 194-213; six feet 3 should be 200-220. And please don't use the "I am getting old" excuse - I have weighed 139-145 since I was 10 (yes, I was 5 feet 9 then)!
I take absolutely no meds; not even vitamins. While I do have a heart of gold, I DO NOT have heart problems; if your medicine cabinet looks like a pharmacy.......I DO NOT have high blood pressure, arthritis, bursitis, diabetes, fibromyalgia, sleeping disorders; I DO NOT have hip/knee replacements; and just today walked 4.5 miles without huffing or puffing. I DO have hypoglycemia and have had it since a child. There is no medication for this - I just need to avoid stress. I WORK and my salary goes to pay a housekeeper, and a laundress; thus, I avoid the stress of arguing over these chores. If it bothers you that I do not do housework or laundry, you should know what to do!
I cannot emphasize enough how much I must be pampered; I positively love massages/foot rubs. If you are not the pampering kind of guy, please do not respond. I love for my date to send flowers to work and use his imagination and maybe send a nice gift box to my job with a beautiful long nightgown inside! Or if you surprise me with a nice dinner (No, I don't pay a cook!); we can enjoy each other more often; also, I am into public displays of affection (kissing, hand holding); I want the 'world' to know we are partners; that we are proud of each other. IF IF by any chance our sexual relationship is leaning toward boredom (I cannot imagine this), it is vital that we talk about it and work on the relationship (Romantic trips HELP!!) rather than one of us turning to another for needs not met. I really enjoy having others see how wonderful my partner treats me - bringing me a blanket if I am cold or making me my favorite cocktail or waiting in line at a concession stand.
VERY important - nothing breaks up a relationship more than having different goals in life. I am getting very close to retirement years - I would like to live in a retirement community where folks get together for social outings such as bowling, playing card games, dancing to the oldies, having cook-outs. It is important to me for us to have mutual friends to do these things with as a relationship will become boring if you do not socialize! With my partner, I would like to have romantic picnics and walk on the beach at night. If you have a motorcycle, convertible, or a tandem, GREAT - I love to ride!! Again, I am very fair complected and alas, cannot be in a really hot sun; if I had to choose between beach and mountains, I would choose mountains near a lake.
The more my partner acknowledges me to his friends, family, co-workers (and God), the more confidant, FUNNY and FUN I will be and the happier my TRUSTWORTHY partner will be, if you get my drift.
I am 58 years old and the pictures on this site were taken on 11/22/2008, a little over a month after my 58th birthday! If we BOTH agree that we have compatible interests, I'll fly to the moon to meet you, if that is where you are! But since flying to the moon is not practical, I 'move' around on here, in an attempt to find my "Mr. Right". So please do not be concerned about distance! Where do I actually live? Augusta, Georgia. I have stayed in this town to raise my children; but guess who have moved AWAY from Augusta, Ga? So now it is my turn; I am ready to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. I will probably 'move' to heavily populated areas in an effort to find you; but again, I live in Georgia. I have been VERY HONEST in my profile. I weighed 140.5 this morning (February 2, 2009)
When I listen to music, I listen to:
Cash, Waylon, Willie, Neil Diamond, Linda Ronstadt, and of course Elvis and Chuck Berry. Everly Brothers, Oak Ridge Boys, Jerry Reed, Fats Domino.
I do NOT have a TV. I think it RUINS a relationship; but when I did have one, I watched American Idol and old "I Love Lucy" shows. In my youth, I actually looked somewhat like her. I don't mind if WE have a TV as partners, just do not want it to consume our lives.
I actually BELIEVE that if folks used up every space available on these sites, folks would not waste their time. I am NOT looking for 1000 responses, just ONE. I have been married TWICE - once for long duration which produced three WONDERFUL children. TWO of these children are in the Christian Campus Ministry. Yes, I go to church!!! I grew up Methodist, married a Southern Baptist and I presently attend a "New Age" church. I would like to find a partner to go to church with; I CANNOT stand, nor will I put up with a hypocrite. I did inhale when I was younger and WISH it was legal. That is how I believe; I believe that sharing the same faith is important. Since my children were raised Southern Baptist and have chosen to remain in the Protestant Faith, I truly cannot see myself with someone who does not attend church.
I am a light drinker. Would love to share a glass or two of wine with my partner at night as it is relaxing; but I will not have an alcoholic in my life. Some folks have addicting personalities and cannot be a light smoker. I do not allow smoking of cigarettes in my home. If you want to have an occasional cigarette outside or while relaxing in the hot tub, no problem. I will smoke on a rare occasion if I am out with friends who smoke. But I do not even like the smell; it stinks. But again, it is relaxing with a drink.
I like doors, yes, even car doors, to be opened for me. I want a partner who will exercise with me. I will join a gym with him if he will be my counter! I think exercise is important.
I cannot emphasize this enough. I am seeking a long term relationship with a trusting man. This man MUST show by his actions that he is trustworthy. For instance, it would be NICE if he had a picture of me at his workplace and in his wallet; that way, if a woman approached him in a sexual manner, he would be able to produce this picture and say "sorry, this is the only woman for me and her name is Wanda".
My Ideal Person:
You want me to write more????
What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Cash, Waylon, Willie, Neil Diamond, Linda Ronstadt
Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I cannot emphasize this enough. I KNOW what this
site is about - but I am NOT interested in exploring sexual fantasies
with anyone except ONE MAN; this man MUST show by
his actions that he is trustworthy. For instance, it would be NICE if
he had a picture of me at his workplace and in his wallet;
that way, if a slut approached him in a sexual manner, he
would be able to produce this picture and say "sorry, this
is the only woman for me and her name is Wanda".
What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Blindfolds, Massage, Anything with the right person, who is FAITHFUL!!!!
Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
ET. You WILL have to read the "other responses"
to understand this answer!!!!
Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.
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