I am new to this site and decided that in order to meet someone totally compatible with me, that I must go 180 degrees from my comfort zone tendancy. This is necessary because my looks and my demeanor only tell 90% of the story. The other 10% of the story has to be told as well. First the 90%: I am a woman who has a quiet, balanced, and overall good life. I enjoy a variety of activities, from art and cultural events to politics, or simply being outdoors enjoying a walk or jog. I love cooking and reading, and am very involved as a parent of a . I enjoy projects around my home and garden (last spring I refinished the kitchen cabinets, and am pretty savvy with finance and investments. I love to smile and laugh. Most people say that I am one of the most optimistic people around today. I surround myself with the positive and informative stuff of life. My would say that I have a corny side too, but hey, I like things that a considers corny; but understand, I am generally pretty cool as over 40 cool goes...or maybe I am somewhat corny...oh well. Now for that illusive 10% that got your attention: I am a total woman, from suits, jeans, evening gowns to sexy lingerie. I am comfortable with my body and what it can offer to the right person with the right connecting vibe. While very sexy and sensuous, I can be a little, just a little mind you, freaky. I think that life should be fully experienced, mind-body-soul. Nothing like it.

My Ideal Person Interested in meeting someone who is balanced (from tie, tux, t-shirt, or timberlands); has interesting conversation and is interested in various topics and ideas; and enjoys a variety things- whether going to a basketball game, hiking, traveling, dining out, or enjoying a cozy fire.
Go slow, friends first and see where it goes. If you are married, engaged, in the process of a divorce, bi-gay, or otherwise committed, please pass me by.