IN PLAIN ENGLISH, I'm here looking for a boyfriend. A man for '1 on 1 sex', for me, means in a loving LTR. I'm 51, not 29, and I act accordingly. I have class and I'm not loose or a slut(anymore:)). Have no interest in marrieds, threesomes, swapping, or swinging. However, I like sex alot with someone I'm crazy about. PLEASE, do me the courtesy of READING my profile to determine if you should contact me. I WILL NEED A PIC. I READ ALL PROFILES to decide if a response is warranted. I'm not interested in the generic, 'looking for fun' types or 'prefer not to say' profiles. I don't need more friends, I've got plenty. I'm not looking for just sex, I can get laid. I don't need to be taken out, weekends in are fine with me and I can buy my own dinner. I'm looking for someone with a brain who's done something with his life and can hold a conversation. I want someone who knows what he wants, and, knows what's REALLY important in life. GUYS GET ONE CHANCE WITH ME, sorry. I don't go back to exs and I'm not interested in those who converse with me, drop out of site, then, reappear months later. I want someone who knows a good thing when they see it and goes for it before someone else gets it. I'm a business person, you snooze you lose. If you email lots of chicks, skip me. If you aren't interested in meeting relatively soon, you aren't interested enuf for me. I don't need a man, but, it'd be nice to have one if I could find a good one. ALSO, guys, you should READ your own profiles! Have not had the 'wild rides', 'unlimited sex', seen the 'sandy beaches', etc. many of you promise. I try very hard to be as accurate as possible and I'd appreciate the same so parties aren't disappointed and time's not wasted. LIARS NEED NOT APPLY. IF YOU ARE MARRIED, the type WHO LIKES TO DATE MARRIEDS/CHEATERS, are BI, a PLAYER, looking for: BI, No Strings, Friends with Benefits; into TV/TS/TG, UNEMPLOYED, an ADDICT, ALCHIE, or a CHEAT, PLEASE, DO NOT CONTACT ME. FAKES, PHONIES, GAME PLAYERS, WIMPS, USERS trying to make EXs jealous, LOSERS, no thanks. I'm an above average girl, and, I want what I want. I AM NOT A 'CHATTER'. IF seriously interested, be prepared to exchange numbers, then, meet. I'm REAL and want the same for a STR/LTR RELATIONSHIP with REAL sex. ALL you partiers just looking to hookup, SKIP ME, I'm looking to do ALOT of PRIVATE partying with a boyfriend! I'm very casual, fun loving and easygoing. I'm a lover, and, appreciate many of the simpler things in life. It's often the little things a man does for me that mean the most. I have a nice life, but, am ready for a change, and to make the right man and relationship a priority. While I'm an independent and self sufficient individual, I prefer a dominant type male in a relationship. I like my men MANLY and IN CONTROL!! I HAVE NO INTEREST in those pathetic types with self esteem issues that thrive on drama and enjoy playing the knight in shining armor for losers. I'm optimistic, bright, fun, passionate, hardworking, loyal, and, have a good sense of humor. I have many interests including travel, casinos, real estate, animals, the outdoors, music, etc. I'm retired and, currently, breed champion miniature horses and Papillons for sale and show. I also dabble in real estate. I have a VERY active libido and am openminded. I know my way around the bedroom and prefer to be one man's personal, play toy. I'm 5'4, curvaceous with light, golden, brown hair. A car accident has left me with one leg. I'm, currently, about a size 12.(one leg, I lost below the knee, the other is scarred below knee, too) I'm attractive for my age, but, no model and not looking for one. There are LOTS of nice men on here looking for RELATIONSHIPS. IF YOU'RE NOT ONE OF THOSE, DO NOT WASTE MY TIME. I'm not here to 'service' numerous guys. I'm looking to satisfy one, good man's every desire. It's because I have a busy life that I'm going the online route. ALSO, I do not pursue guys. AND, I'm looking for the guy who finds me, imperfections and all, appealing. IF, I have responded to you more than once, feel free to contact me if you've not heard from me. You won't be bothering me. I often get off on tangents or lose track of emails. AND, IF you have any interest, EMAIL, I rarely keep up with winks and hotlists. Be sure to checkout my blogs! (Pix with darker hair are from 5/07. I was 37 in curly haired pix)

My Ideal Person Looking for someone fun, positive, smart, trustworthy, mature, financially secure, and loyal. Someone of good character who's stable and who's word is good. Someone whose priority is having a passion filled relationship with a fun, quality lady. Enjoy being a friend and lover, and being romantic (and naughty!) with someone who makes me feel desirable.
GUYS I highly recommend checking out the show Millionaire Matchmaker. While I'm not looking for a millionaire, the rules, guidelines and advice on the show do apply. I'm looking for someone who's been thru the riff raff, is seriously looking for a relationship, and is willing to work at having one should we click.
\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\****PLEASE, looking for someone who not only SAYS he wants a relationship, but, is willing to MAKE AN EFFORT to make it happen. MEANING, if you're not going to travel to see me regularly, or, if your kids take up most of your time, or, your work will keep you busy or away much of the time, NO THANK YOU. I want to see someone, regularly, in a normal relationship. I don't ask for much, but, I do want/need some time and attention.
If serious, distance isn't, necessarily, an issue if we're willing to make an effort. I could relocate.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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